Discovering you’re pregnant when your partner isn’t on the same page can prompt many feelings, like confusion, sadness, and even fear. Whether his reaction surprised you or confirmed what you suspected, it’s understandable to feel uncertain about what to do next.
At Crossroads Care Clinic, our advocates offer a safe, non-judgmental place to process your thoughts and explore your options. We provide free and confidential services so you can move forward with support. Schedule an appointment today to talk with someone who can help you take the next step.
Understanding His Reaction
Sometimes, a partner’s initial response isn’t the final word. Shock, worry about finances, or fear of change can lead to a quick “no” before he’s had time to think. Once the news settles, he may need space and a second conversation.
If he’s open to discussing his reaction, consider choosing a calm setting to talk again. Share your feelings and invite him to express his own. While you can’t control his decision, respectful communication can help you understand each other better.
Protecting Your Well-Being
Your safety comes first if your partner’s disapproval turns threatening, manipulative, or violent. Abuse is never your fault.
If you feel unsafe, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800-799-7233) for 24/7 confidential help and resources. You deserve protection and respect.
Building Your Own Support System
You are the one who decides how to move forward with your pregnancy. No one has the right to pressure you into abortion, adoption, or parenting. Surround yourself with people who respect your choices and provide encouragement, whether that’s close friends, relatives, faith leaders, or trusted mentors.
At Crossroads Care Clinic, our advocates can help you identify supportive people in your life and connect you with community resources. We also provide pregnancy testing and ultrasounds so you can gather important details about your health before making any decisions.
We’re Here For You
We will listen to your concerns, answer questions, and give you the space to consider every option without judgment or pressure.
Schedule a free, confidential appointment with Crossroads Care Clinic today to talk with an advocate who will walk alongside you, share resources, and help you find the support you need.
FAQ:
Can my partner force me to have an abortion?
No. The decision is legally and personally yours. No one can require or coerce you to choose abortion or any other option.
What if I’m worried about my safety?
If you ever feel threatened, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800-799-7233) or local law enforcement in an emergency situation. Your safety is the top priority.
Do I have to make a decision right away?
No. Though it’s important to make a timely decision, learning about your pregnancy through testing and an ultrasound can help you make a thoughtful choice considering your health and future.
